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Five ways to overcome a breakup

#divorce diary#

Breaking up from a relationship that one has taken a whole lot of time to build is not an easy thing to let go, many of those relationships have taken ones time, energy, emotions, and even resources to build.

However, there’s a factor that can make that union come to a halt, this does not mean that both parties have not tried to salvage it, but at times it just has to happen.

That’s not where the real story is though, this blog post is about moving on after it has happened. How you do that is what I will be talking about below.

So much stress usually comes with a breakup, first of all, you think of the memories shared whether good or bad, then again the reality of life sets in, where do I start from? Who do I turn to? and so many other questions that are raised.

After my break up something’s I applied have really worked for me, therefore, I felt the need to share so that others can give them a trial in their moment of need.

The basics after a breakup are numerous but I chose to go with these five (5);

1. Find yourself (explore)

2. Engage yourself with something.

3. Change your environment.

4. Make new friends.

5. Be strong in faith and move on.

Explore (Find yourself)

This is a way of finding your real self by being natural, this is the most difficult period to deal with because apparently, someone who has been part of your life for only God knows when and you, saying goodbye to the person has to be a very bitter pill to swallow.

This is about the time you will be thinking where do I go from here? How do I start all over again or who will want me like this? Nobody needs to want you just want, love and trust yourself.

Emotions are usually high during these periods, but focus, on the things that makes you happy rather than the ones that make you keep falling back to think about all the negative situations whether good or bad in your mind.

It’s also good to sulk yes, but don’t dwell too much in it because that too may lead to depression, and by the time that happens, it will be very difficult to come out, therefore, it may become an illness and untimely death.

I believe nobody wants to go to an early grave simply because of a breakup.

Engage yourself with something

You might have been nurturing that dream for only God knows when, but it has never manifested, and again it never left you though, my fear go for it. Only do the things that you are passionate about and what makes you happy. Because the bottom line is being happy, get too involved that you hardly have time to reminisce or sulk over a breakup.

Change your environment if necessary.

Nobody wants to remain in an environment that remains them of negative memory, sometimes you walk around and you feel the memories or see people around you that reminds you of all the heartache you’ve been through.

If you can, please have a change of environment where you’ll start afresh and with people who know little or nothing about you. Remaining in your old environment is not a bad idea too. But some people will naturally want to torture your by constantly reminding you of what you as the victim is trying to forget thinking they are helping, some will show you fake or insincere sympathy wherein real sense they are happy it happened to you.

Make new friends.

If you are rue cheerful type who likes to socialize, this could actually be easier for you. This is because it will not take you time to meet people and make interactions, discuss any topic of interest with people around you and by so doing you are open to a new relationship with total strangers whom you may find interesting too.

Be strong in faith and move on.

If you are the religious type and you feel you’ll want to make some devotional commitments then go for it, there is no peace as the peace of trusting someone whom you know you can trust wholeheartedly.

Don’t just let it be the preliminary of your existences, because you cannot fold your arms and just trust in God and expect manners from heaven to fall, no dear, you need to be up and doing, to salvage yourself respect, your needs are always there staring you in the face and no one to cater for you. And if you have children too, darling get out of that sober mood and experience the real world.

All the points I’ve listed above, really worked out for me, and I also saw some other people who have been through such situations, I felt I should share for anyone who is passing through a breakup, or is bereaved, you can apply the same and I bet you won’t regret ever trying it.

Bag snatcher courses commotion at Wuse market bridge in Abuja.


A petty thief have this morning caused a heavy traffic at the wide market bridge leading to sheraton hotel.

The thief who was said to have snatched a handbag belonging to a lady ran under the bride for cover after being chased by some two mobile police officers.

Un-lookers who also joined in the chase could not apprehend him because he was said to be carrying a very big and long knife. Eye witnesses who identified him called on the police who where on the bridge to come and shot him on the leg so that he won’t be able to getaway.

It was such a dramatic scenery as vehicles parked at the roadside to catch a glimpse of what was happening when the thief was threatening to take a dive in the flowing river under the bridge.

Yours sincerely left before he could finally be caught, see photos from the scene.

Check out this throw back photo of Tinubu, Osinbanjo and others.

This is a throwback picture of former governor of Lagos State Sir Bola Ahmed Tinubu alongside Vice President Yemi Osinbanjo and three others

NAHCON Chairman Task Journalists to report facts not Issues during Hajj operations.

The chairman of National Hajj commission of Nigeria NAHCON, Barr Abdullahi Muhammad Muktar, has called on Nigerian journalist to be neutral in their reportage by reporting factual information which will add value to the commission as well as promotes the image of Nigeria rather than tarnishing the image of country.

The chairman was speaking at an inaugural lecture held for the media at the national mosque in Abuja where he challenged every media house to be truthful and factual in what they report, urging that they should serve as the EFCC and C. I. D through investigative journalism I n order to uncover the truth.

Earlier, papers were presented by Mr Mansur Liman M.D FRCN on “Ethics of the Journalist in Hajj coverage”, Imam Tajjuddeen  Sheikh Ajigbu on “performing the Hajj” and Alh. Idris Abdullahi (MD News’s Agency of Nigeria NAN), where both called on the journalists to exhibit professionalism in their duties.

The journalists where also cautioned not to overstep their boundaries in the cause of carrying out their duties, as the Saudi Authorities does not take any violation lightly.

In Addition to all, the chairman called on the media to always verify any information and complaints before taking it on air.

There were questions and answer session for the media to the resource persons, contribution were also made by the first timers to guide the new timers on the operation.

National Hajj Commission Inaugurates Media Team for 2019 Hajj Operation.

The National Hajj Commission of Nigeria NAHCON,  has today inaugurated the media team who are to cover the 2019 Hajj operations in the kingdom of Saudi Arabia.

The Inauguration which is currently taking place at the library wing of the National mosque in Abuja has virtually all the major media representatives in the country, comprising of print, electronic as well as online media in attendance See more photos from the event below.

Saraki congratulates Lawal, Gbajabiamila, and their deputies

Former senate president Bukola Saraki has extended his warm congratulations to the just elected senate president who is also his successor in the red chambers Ahmed Lawal, as well as his deputy Omo-Agege.

In a statement signed by his media and publicity secretary Saraki also congratulates Femi Gbajabiamila and his deputy Ahmed Idris Wase both for emerging as speaker and deputy speaker of the house of representatives.

Congratulations to Senate President Ahmed Lawan, Speaker, Femi Gbajabiamila, Deputy Senate President Ovie Omo-Agege and Deputy Speaker Idris Wase as they begin their journey as presiding officers of the 9th National Assembly.
“As you set forth on your legislative endeavours in the next four years, I ask that you always put the Nigerian people first in all that you do and protect the integrity of the legislative institution.
“I wish you all, Distinguished Senators and Honourable Members, utmost success as you work to serve our nation and its great people,” the statement quoted Mr Saraki as saying.
The election took place earlier today both at the red and green chambers respectively with both elected leaders leading with wide margins. 

Senate presidency Ahmed Lawal emerges winner. Photos.

Ahmed Lawal senator from Yobe state edges senate president for the 9th assembly.
He has been sworn in and taken his mantle for the next four years.

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