Each time I hear people mention how difficult women are or can be, or how ungrateful they are it blows my mind. In reality, nobody will want to be a burdened item on anybody.
Meanwhile, people have really never taken their time to want to understand each other properly before drawing conclusions. A man who married a woman he has coated for a while got to see her zeal to excel in all her endeavor, cannot just wake up one day to kill her dream simply because he wants to be in control.
‘Women love to do whatever makes them happy especially what they really want to achieve.
As a spouse, you make so many promises to your wife before marriage to allow her to trade the path she has chosen, but will immediately turn to a monster the moment she has gotten to his house.
Some will not just stop at the controlling freak they are, they will be so dominating, intimidating and all the _nating_ you could know.
Others are so selfish, that won’t even allow the wife to visit her relatives. In an advanced world where everyone needs to survive, every woman needs to be up and doing, there are times her little efforts can save the day too. When she chose to go about something yours is to counsel her, show her the nitty gritty of what she is about to involve herself, is she ready for the challenge or will want to back out the moment it gets tough?
Find a professional to talk to her if need be and support her to reach her goals.
Show a woman true love and you will be the happiest man alive. When the said that love is not everything but at least it forms the basis of the relationship. A woman who is so in love with a man can overlook any Obstacle that the relationship might come with.
Treating a woman like trash simply because she’s already in your house kills your relationship faster than you know it. Why abandoned all those small things you use to do to draw her attention?
Now! On a very serious note, those small I love you, the outing, the petting and all that do them and see if you’ll have a troublesome woman lying beside you. The smallest things we take for granted is what really destroy so many relationships is
This particular one kills faster than Ebola, in every relationship, communication is very vital. So many marriages have ended due to lack of proper communication.
Effective communication help to clear whatever misconception there is between the both of you, must men complain about their wife’s being too demanding (financially) mostly, have you communicated to her on what your take-home income is? Let her into the picture, let her know and it will never be the same again.
Women love to be appreciated for the little things they do, and believe it or not, that also push them to do a whole lot more. Again turning a blind eye to all she does is honestly not a good signal too so learn to appreciate her efforts.
Taking care of children and other responsibilities is no joke even though they may seem so.
The worst of them all, who should apologize first? After all, I am not at fault here, or I am the head why should I succumb to her stubbornness, etc
Although there are some few stubborn and ungodly women who can go to any extent in frustrating a man regardless of how good that man is, such a number should not classified and generalized all as bad.
When you applied a little out of this few topics above, just sit back and enjoy a home free of unlimited love and respect from the woman you chose as a life partner.
So many things are happening today because most of the point I raised above are no longer in existence in most households and so it kills the union so fast before you even realize it.
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